Here's a helpful thought for anyone planning a wedding. Sit down with your parents, and the photo album of their wedding. Get them to take you through it. Just take notice of what they talk about.
How much time do they spend talking about the flowers?
How much time do they spend talking about the church they were in?
How much time do they spend talking about the wedding dress?
How much time do they spend talking about the people?
Now go, plan your wedding.